Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Fact or Fiction – Some realities of my trip to Swaziland


 
1)      In some parts of our world, being disabled, in whatever form it might come in, is still considered a bad omen, a curse and a reject in society?
             FACT

2)      A disabled person is not allowed to seen by the King in Swaziland
            FACT

I was in Swaziland recently for the launch of a project we are running there called the

 ‘Swaziland Disability Rights and Inclusion Project’

Arriving in a country where disability in any form is still considered a “bad omen” was a very real reality for me considering I have a disability and faced the hard hitting facts of it head first.

I really mean head first literally and physically, let me tell you a story,  out of the few I have.

Picture a hotel foyer in the morning, I am on my way to breakfast, I step out the lift into the foyer of the hotel and there was the perfect spot to trip and fall. This is reality, so as I am flying through the air I know I am about to hit the ground and be so embarrassed, but it’s too late to stop it.

The embarrassment had no hold on what I experienced. As I am lying there one of the employees of the hotel, dressed in his fancy suite, name badge, walking around like he was really important, strolled past me. I literally saw his shoes walk past my face.  I made my way to my knees, took my bag off my back, stood up, made sure all was still in place on my body and went and had breakfast.

You must realise this all happens in less than 60 seconds, but 60 seconds of hard hitting facts.

I remember sitting at breakfast thinking about what just happened. Now don’t get me wrong, I have had this before. I fall its part of my DNA at the moment; a friend of mine who hikes with me can tell you all about my hitting the dust stories.  In fact a friend I met while in Mozambique in 2006 emailed me recently and had a good little giggle remembering one of many days in Mozambique, here is a snippet of what she said.....

Sometimes I think about the time you wiped out in the sand by our house in Mozambique and we both just sat there and started laughing and laughing. I think the Lord was healing on you perhaps? What else can you do after you have wiped out for the 40th time that day? Laugh or cry and what does crying do? May as well laugh! Laugh at the devil, laugh with life, laugh that you are on an amazing adventure with our Lord, Jesus Christ!!!

What I saw and felt that morning in Swaziland was not about me falling, it was about the guy who walked past me, it was about the other disabled person who has been walked past, it’s about the blind person being shown the wrong bus to catch home, it’s about the deaf person not being understood, it’s about the person in a wheelchair not being able to move around freely, it’s about turning FICTION (FALSE FACTS) into REALITY (TRUE FACTS).  

The project that is running there.............will hopefully be this turning point for Swaziland.

I was reading my bible the other day and had started in 2 Samuel, as I kept reading I came upon this scripture, and I will end with it. It’s about David; He was king at this time and Jonathan’s son Mephibosheth who was lame in his feet. The scripture speaks for itself, but here are some true facts about how a king treated a person with a disability.

2 Samuel 9

David and Mephibosheth

9 David asked, “Is there anyone still left of the house of Saul to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan’s sake?”2 Now there was a servant of Saul’s household named Ziba. They summoned him to appear before David, and the king said to him, “Are you Ziba?” “At your service,” he replied.3 The king asked, “Is there no one still alive from the house of Saul to whom I can show God’s kindness?” Ziba answered the king, “There is still a son of Jonathan; he is lame in both feet.”4 “Where is he?” the king asked. Ziba answered, “He is at the house of Makir son of Ammiel in Lo Debar.”

5 So King David had him brought from Lo Debar, from the house of Makir son of Ammiel.6 When Mephibosheth son of Jonathan, the son of Saul, came to David, he bowed down to pay him honor. David said, “Mephibosheth!”“At your service,” he replied.

7 “Don’t be afraid,” David said to him, “for I will surely show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan. I will restore to you all the land that belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you will always eat at my table.”8 Mephibosheth bowed down and said, “What is your servant, that you should notice a dead dog like me?”

9 Then the king summoned Ziba, Saul’s steward, and said to him, “I have given your master’s grandson everything that belonged to Saul and his family. 10 You and your sons and your servants are to farm the land for him and bring in the crops, so that your master’s grandson may be provided for. And Mephibosheth, grandson of your master, will always eat at my table.” (Now Ziba had fifteen sons and twenty servants.)

11 Then Ziba said to the king, “Your servant will do whatever my lord the king commands his servant to do.” So Mephibosheth ate at David’s[a] table like one of the king’s sons.

12 Mephibosheth had a young son named Mika, and all the members of Ziba’s household were servants of Mephibosheth. 13 And Mephibosheth lived in Jerusalem, because he always ate at the king’s table; he was lame in both feet.


Sunday, October 7, 2012

A start


I decided it was time to write about my journey in the disability world. Starting this blog is part of my writing.

In my 7 months working for CBM International I have been exposed to disability in a fresh light.  And thought if I am only now seeing this, and I am disabled, how many others of us are not seeing it, and who can gain a better understanding and heart for seeing it from reading stories fresh from the heart and eyes of my experiences in the field.
In the past I always saw my disability as the worst thing that can ever happen to me, but oh how my mind is changing. 

Before I saw my disability as a painful

Now I see it as healing for others

Before I was so embarrassed and tried to hide it

Now I see how it being exposed can change others

Before it was all about my feelings and insecurities when I was around people who were not disabled

Now it’s about others and how they feel and making them comfortable around me

Before it was ignoring the facts about my disability and trying to be normal like everyone else

Now it’s about taking on the facts and realising and really defining “what is normal”

Journey with me on this, and let’s see where we go!